How to Make a Positive Change in Yourself

It’s completely okay to want to change yourself. The desire to make changes can be a beautiful thing.

We can change the relationship we have with ourselves.

We can change the way we see ourselves.

We can change our habits, and behaviors, and reactions, and responses.

I hope I change. I hope that when I’m 30, I’m different. I love who I am now. I think I’m pretty wonderful and amazing and I’m proud of myself for myriad things. I’ve grown tremendously, and I hope I continue to grow and as I do, I expand the definition of who I am.

Change means that you chose to do hard things, be vulnerable, take risks, have experiences, and stretch beyond what’s comfortable.

And even through all that change, I also know I won’t become more or less worthy. Because my worth isn’t contingent upon transformation, or change, or anything else other than my existence.

We are worthy, because we’re alive and breathing and living on this rock floating in space.

We don’t become. We just are.

So, change. Change all you want. Change is good for you—so long as you know, it won’t make you anymore worthy. All it means is you created a different version of yourself, that you’ve evolved into a different form.

Are you currently wanting to make changes AND step into a deeper place of self-acceptance? EmpowerHer Coaching might be the cozy home for you.

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