Single on Valentine's Day
Valentine’s Day is commonly perceived as a threat to single-hood. It’s associated for those in relationships—those coupled, partnered.
When you’re single, this day isn’t really for you. Sure, you can celebrate platonic relationships, but even then—that feeling of ‘something’s missing’ comes up.
You’ve been conditioned to find love outside yourself, without it—you are not yet whole.
Why are you still single?
Have you met someone special, yet?
You’ll find someone, don’t worry.
Don’t you want to get married and have kids?
You’re convinced that you, your worth, your happiness, your happily-ever-after is dependent upon another being.
...and to that I say, we're never going to feel whole and enough so long as we focus on everything outside of us, to fix and fill up everything on the inside.
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Romantic partnerships are truly beautiful, there’s no denying that. But the notion that claims someone else completed you, fills you, makes you whole—is insidious and couldn't be further from the truth.
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You, love, are whole and that wholeness is not contingent on another person.
So, rather than make this day solely about receiving love from another, receive that love from you. Buy yourself chocolates and flowers; write yourself a heart-felt letter; hug yourself, touch yourself, have sex with yourself; tell yourself, “Hey, I fucking love you, and I want you and I want to take YOU on a date today, so what would you like to do?"
And this is the type of love EmpowerHer Coaching & the support group is going to teach you how to embody.
Going inside yourself. Healing what's hurting. Relinquishing anything that's holding you from feeling unwavering love. Operating from an unshakeable knowing that you are enough. Unleashing mad respect for yourself.
If you're sick of feeling like you need to look a certain way, be a certain way, show up a certain way to feel like you're enough - and you're ready to build something beautiful from the inside out, I'd love to invite you to join us inside of EmpowerHer Coaching.
This time around EmpowerHer Coaching is different. You've got me AND you've got a group of women who are on a similar journey as you to support you in yours.
This is a place for you to come home to yourself in the most powerful way. A place where you can come as you are and be surrounded by women to welcome you home as they welcome themselves home, too.
You'll receive:
trauma informed care
weekly check-ins and daily text support with me
monthly group calls with the women in the group to discuss body image and relationships (maybe even sex depending on how the group feels)
resources and guides to become the expert of your body and liberate yourself from body shame
optional workouts
deep, deep love and support
Registration for the group closes down March 1st, and I'm keeping this group small and intimate.
EmpowerHer Coaching awaits, if this is feeling like you’re journey. You can learn more and apply here.
xx
Dev